MrLost, Thanks for all of that. It's just such a hard roller coaster ride. My house was burglarized yesterday. He wasn't as supportive as I would have liked. It was hard to think of the guy I married vs. the guy who was at the house dealing with the broked door, stolen tv's, police, etc. Long story short, I want to fight. I want to survive as his Mrs. But I think I'm going to have to move out and he can move back into the house. I think for too long he's had his eaten his cake and had it too and that's my fault. I think it's time for drastic measures. The real straw here is that we were going to bed and he made it clear he wanted to leave, I said our house was broken into today and I know they aren't coming back. However as a peace of mind thing--you should be here with me and your son. He stayed but in the guest room. And then he called the OW from EA. I heard her say something pretty snide "You have to stay there because she's scared?" I blew up. He hung up with her and we talked. It wasn't a bad talk, but basically, if he has the audacity to call her the one night he's back home......I just don't know what to think anymore. I think it's time for drastic measures. I think it's time for him to see what a divorce is going to really be like. Fortunately, I have really really great friends.
