Lanzo, You and I seem to be in a similar situation with seemingly chronically unhappy spouses. I know what you mean when you say that if there was an escape offered by the spouse, you'd jump on it.
Since you're reading that book you recommended about the superior man, I'll keep an eye on your thread to see how you integrate it's ideas into your situation and see what impact it has.
A comment one of your posters said about how our W's can be verbally abusive, but call us abusive because their needs aren't being met rings true for my situation.
Keep working, and experimenting with different approaches, and take care of yourself.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
