Jack, thanks for your direction. I've been thinking about it trying to absorb it but have a question. If I am right and they are wrong. And if the other person feels the same way, then where does it get us? E.g. If I think my H is not doing enough to be connected with his kids and I think I am right, of course. But he thinks he is doing OK and doesn't need to change. Then who is right and how is this going to be resolved? He thinks he is right and I think I am right. But in the mean time, my kids don't know who their father is, my H doesn't know who my kids are and they are not connected. What to do in a sitch like this?
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
