The guy that is flirting with me is a Bhuddist. He has spent much time in Asia and traveling after his sister died in a road accident when she was 17 (he was 18 and saw it happen).
You know, he's very sweet, but seems to keep his distance too. He texts me a lot but whenever he has suggested going out, he's very careful about it. Of course I could take that as being nice, but I find that I want a man who, if he's interested will move heaven and earth to be with me ! (hahahahaha ) I truly AM DEMANDING hahahahaha !
Yes, he is a nice person and you are lucky that he DOES keep his distance since you don't want him anyway. So there is no point for him to move heaven and earth for you since he would only get hurt very much! He would probably move heaven and earth if he received the right signals from you.
You are right by wanting to look for somebody intellingent, etc. who you feel comfortable to be with. I am the same. There is no point in going out with somebody if you think he is inadequate.