Hey Peace, just stopping by to say hi and to thank you for checking up on me.

Dont have any advice on how to let go because I havent been able to.

I will say this though, always follow your gut when it comes to the kids.

And I think we start to let go when we can forgive them - really and truly and when we can envision a good life for ourselves.

But I dont think it is something you can wish for, or work on. I think it is a process, with a different timeline for everyone.
Try to pull back as much as you can. And day by day, when you dont realize it, you will have let go.

Peace, you are a wonderful person and a great mom. I wish you happiness and peace in your life.