Matilda, My impression is that DB would say that I don't have intimacy issues, but that the patterns of our relating make me less likely to want to be intimate. The solution is in changing the pattern of relating, so that I want to be more intimate with my W.
When we're connecting I do feel the stirrings of intimacy.
Maybe I can find some ideas in DB. Maybe reading Mars & Venus can help.
Happiness is ongoing work, so I'll keep working, and try something new, when I think of it.
In the meantime, I'll let the situation happen, and cultivate peace-of-mind by being present in my life without judgment.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
