Kev, I would just say that it's a matter of trust. Not just the lying. Just be honest and say that you've got an issue with trusting her. Everything is going to be suspect...what she says about herself, the kids, etc.

You've shown her what kind of person she is and now she's slowly trying to kiss your @$$. Again, trying to get attention. You're doing good at shrugging it off as being insincere. Get your power back in your relationship. If the anger starts to come out, then let it out. Just not in a scary way. Think of it like you're the parent who caught his child with her hand in the cookie jar.

Don't linger over the A. Just continue to grow stronger while working on yourself and taking care of the kids. I have a feeling she's going to turn around quick and then start blaming you for her A. It's usually what happens as a defensive mechanism.


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