Matilda, I'm out of ideas on how to improve the M at this point. What I'm doing doesn't seem to be moving us forward--dancing, cooking, running errands, monthly housecleaner. It's too soon to know the influence of IC, or the Friendship Force world travel group.
I do think my GAL efforts (dance lessons and dancing), hobbies (poetry, raising my sheep puppy dog), and self-help efforts (books and podcasts) have allowed me to cope with my situation, grow personally, and stay with my situation.
I'm reading DB again for a different perspective. I'd like to think there's a solution that I haven't discovered yet.
In the meantime, I need to let this situation happen.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
