Your motivations and behaviors have to be above reproach when you do so.
Because if they're not and your wife is MLC, she will rip your face off and be further away than ever.
You have to be matter-of-fact, yet respectful, and most important, whatever repercussions you might lay out for your wife should she not tighten up - you had best be willing to follow through on them swiftly.
trapt, you have gotten some really damn good advice and some really damn good support.
Right now in this moment...what Amy just said:
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To clarify that I support calling BS:
Your motivations and behaviors have to be above reproach when you do so.
Because if they're not and your wife is MLC, she will rip your face off and be further away than ever.
You have to be matter-of-fact, yet respectful, and most important, whatever repercussions you might lay out for your wife should she not tighten up - you had best be willing to follow through on them swiftly.
Is the best f-ing advice you could ever get.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
