She doesn't validate any of my emails, saying that I continue to blame circumstances for my behavior. and she continues to blame YOU; it appears that she takes no responsibility....even about sleeping elsewhere!
... that she cannot tolerate any more abuse from me. I would say SHE is abusing you! She also complains about not having enough space, and that I'm around the house too much. and so many couples complain about no time together!
I don't understand her perspective. ME NEITHER!
It sounds like the current M is dying, and turning a corner. YOU certainly have made an extreme effort to turn the marriage around
