Please .....I'm not saying I'm going to call her up and go on the offensive and tell her to "fark off I'm done." "I Hate You."
What sense would that make? She filed she is pushing this.
That is not the point I'm trying to make.
What I'm saying is this. When she has questioned herself about her anger toward me on more than one occasion, why then should I let it slide the next day when she spews?
If she complains about what I say or don't say or do or don't do when it comes to our children. Why listen to that garbage? She left, she found another man. She knows this is BS.
If she doesn't help me with bills on her week. Why the hell should I give her money when its my week?
She would not let me see my son on his Birthday when she didn't have plans, but yet she expects me to switch 10 days in the month of March to fit her schedule. Mind you, I agreed to the custody agreement SHE put forth and she wants to change it all the time.
I strongly feel I need to put a stop to this crap. I'm not boo hooing about it, I've lived it for a long time and I'm not going to go all out and lay waste to her. That's not what I mean. I'm talking about standing up for myself and not letting this crap slide anymore.
This may be a bad analogy, but if she were a crackhead and kept saying "gee I don't know why my teeth are falling out?" or "man where is all my money." " I don't know why I feel like sh*t all the time." "Can I have ten bucks Trapt?"
All I'm saying is I'm not giving her ten bucks anymore. Don't admit to me you have a problem and then continue on with the destruction.
So don't give her $10.
But don't throw the baby out with the bath water, either.
