I also told her that if she thinks she can wiggle her a$$ because she knows I want sex that she is mistaken, she doesn't have that kind of hold on me and it kind of surprised her.
Well, brace yourself my friend, b/c now that you have made that statement, she will be determined to break you. She will pour the heat on like you won't believe! She won't mean it. she only wants to "prove" that she can break you down.
I am glad you have stopped with the gift buying, saying I love you and taking her crap. She could also learn to control her tempter fits. Anybody can that truly wants to, but she will do it as long as she knows you will allow her to do it. If it spoils your day or the kids's.....I would tell her..."no more".
You are doing great.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!