You have been angry for a long time now - that just cannot be good for you, (healthwise), or your children,(emotionally).
Like Yoyo, you need to draw a line under this somehow.
I can see that as the children get older it can make it a bit easier to take action, as one can explain more to them. Yoyo's D's have a pretty good understanding of what has happened to her, whilst you still have some relatively young children.
I am sorry you are still stuck in this situation at home...however I am glad that your job is good and enjoyable.
Things are good at my end, although I am still playing around with trying to find a purpose to my life. I am also not looking forward to my eldest D leaving home to go to university next October. C'est la vie.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
