Rob,
XW tells you not to control her when you ask that she not speak badly of your sister, and practically in the next breath she tries to control what you watch with D. Scooby Doo, is inappropriate????? Believe me, if a 5 year old is afraid of a movie , she will tell you to take it off. You really need to tune out your XW. Deal with business matters and nothing else. Just accept she is incapable of being civil, she must always get the jabs in. Guess she does not want you to forget you forced her to get a divorce and now you have the nerve to want to do what was legally agreed upon!