Hi PM,
Today has been an "off day", feeling very "seperated" from H and his new life. Feel very lost by all of this.

D15 has still not talked/seen H since 12/22. I know it has to bother him but the text messages once a week are pathetic.

He had talked about going to a counselor, getting her with a counselor and what has he done nothing.

I am calling IC for D15 and get her in there. That is in between of making L appt, maintainence of house, etc.

Next week I send a text to H telling him he needs to get his own car insurance. He is currently paying his share for it but I want him off the policy while he is drinking. I need to continue to protect what I can for our family.

This stuff is hard.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09