I pray you find your way

[fisherman]

We have been together for 11 yrs. married for 7yrs. if you want to count last year.

[AmyC]

When did she leave you?

[fisherman]

mentally/ emotionally almost 2yrs.

physically about 10 months

[AmyC]

And how is it that she knows you "stand"?

[fisherman]

She would have to be really out there to not know that I would like things to work.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

assumptions...makes asshats out of everyone.

[fisherman]

Trust me she knows I want our marriage to work. I'm sure of it.

[AmyC]

I thought the "out there" part had already been established.

Now, other than letting her pistol whip you whenever she feels like it, how should she "know" that you are "standing" for the restoration of your marriage?

[fisherman]

Not at the price of me though. It's not worth it.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Trust me she knows I want our marriage to work. I'm sure of it.

Trust me...you going to kiss me after you f me? No, trust is earned, and I don't trsut people who tell me to trust them.

In this trapt you have no idea what she knows or doesn't know.
I seldom say this:
You are wrong. Even if you are right, your are right for the worng reasons, and that means you are wrong.