Hey G, I do admire your patience so much. I think you have to go back to zero expectations or you are going to continue to be disappointed and get angry.
Your h is not all the way through the journey. You have to decide if you can continue to move forward and not expect too much from your h or not.
I think you shouldnt call him or text him unless absolutley necessary.
It seems he is still not ready to make a real committment.