Well, I didn't every hear the complaints of me being controlling until we started down the divorce path . . .
Yep -- thought so.
I'd be shocked if there were no one else, dating back to when she started withdrawing and squirreling away your joint funds. The "controlling" thing is VERY much affair "script," and I in fact started a whole thread on this subject once, and it drew a lot of spirited discussion and examples of just how common it is!
