H has officially filed. Please help me!!!!!

[MomInPain]

Why can't I talk to him without loosing my head?

He is such an ass.

All he want's to know is if we can sit down and talk.

I ask, about what? He says he wants to figure things out.

Now, to any other LBS these are words you live for.

Me, I know better.

See what he does to me.

I'd love nothing more than to work on things. With Us.

But no, that isn't even in his radar. He means that he wants to talk about how we are to proceed with our divorce now that I don't want the house. He wants to know why, blah blah blah.

So I push again.

I start with,
I don't want the house because I don't know what I'm going to do in 2 years.
I don't have the resources or the skills to finish the unfinished projects, etc.
Plus once I'm done with school, if there are no reasons for me to stay in town, I plan to leave.
So now would be a good time to really think about how much time you are spending with the kids.
They need you more than every other weekend.
All he can say is hmm, and ya, and I know.

I then say, I just don't get why you can't be honest with me. Why you are ending us, and why you won't tell me the truth (about the ow he completely denies). He says it's is for many reasons and he has already told me and he doesn't want to go over it again and I don't want to believe him so I am believing what I want to believe. whew that was a mouth full.

I figure I've done enough damage so I end the call by saying that the kids need you. Who knows where they will be in 2 years so you really need to consider how you want to do custody. I will talk with an A and send you an email with my proposed offer so that you won't feel ambushed when we meet.

I'm really starting to hate this man I used to love so dearly.