H just moved out, 13 months post-bomb

[Dawn of Hope]

Hi, Ali and Mishka,
Thanks for responding! I really appreciate you, my "virtual" friends!

So, first the update, then responding to your thoughts...

When the package from his work came this morning (it was paperwork, as I suspected), I hadn't entirely decided how to handle it. I explained the situation to the delivery person, and decided to submit it as "refused for wrong address" on her suggestion.

Then I called the HR department at his company (he works for a big company). I explained the situation to the person there, and she was sympathetic and helpful to the limits of what she was allowed to do (they can't tell anyone except the employee anything of significance without the employee's permission). She checked and sure enough, H had not changed his address in their records, so that's why his stuff is coming here. (I have no idea what happened to his W-2s, by the way--she said they have been sent, but I haven't seen them, and I'm the one who normally does the taxes so I would need them if we are filing jointly.) She did say that that paperwork that came today was quite important and he was going to need to sign some things (even though she couldn't tell me anything about the reason for the paperwork). She did ask if I had any benefits through him <big red flag alert!> (yes--medical insurance, life insurance...and I'm the one who has the heavier medical expenses, so I agree, Mishka, I need to figure out what to do). I think I will go get all my prescriptions refilled today.

Whoops--got sidetracked, gotta go get ready to take my oldest cat (almost 17 yrs) to the vet for her annual checkup. Will be back with more later!

Peace,
Dawn