Hi. Yep, pain it is. I just told two of our kids. My heart is breaking.
I never wanted to have to say those words to them. I never wanted this. I did everything in my power & then some. I just choose not to be walked on & ignored anymore.
Thank you. I am standing up for myself & my kids.
The interesting concept about Love Without Hurt is that as long as I allow H to walk on me, he isn't lined up with his core value. By me refusing to accept this type of treatment, he may eventually get closer to who God intended him to be in the first place.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
