I am guessing I don't count as a newbie, then, since my butt is still hanging in.
Laura..no..I don't consider you that at all..and have not for quite some time. You're appraching a year..I figure you stay where you are just for the fact that you don't quite have another place to go...I mean..you don't fit separated, surviving...MLC, infidelity or any of that..
I figure you're the Newbie Gatekeeper.. LOL
I read along by the way..I see you don't post much anymore on yours..simply because there does not appear to be much happening with DH and the stich..