Hi JD,

Thanks for popping in. Yes, I am aware of that verse in the book of Matthew 19:9. Infact, my W told me after I discovered everything that I was free to remarry now based off that verse. I told her I was well aware of the verse, but didn't announce it to her because I didn't want her saying, oh, let me fix that for you. But fix it she did anyways.

The thing is, I still want to repair things with her. But she told me last night that she still wants OM. According to her OM has decided to end things and fix his M. But my W still tries to seduce him anyways. She has offered him his fantasies that she knows he doesn't get at home. She is sick in the head right now.

Sexual sin is hard to forgive, you are right. But I am willing to forgive it and try to fix things. But I can't fix it unless she is willing and right now, she isn't.

I know this is true. Believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see. Everyone has been right on that. The only thing I beleive is when my W is standing in front of me. I can see her standing in front of me, so I know she is there. Outside that, I can't believe anything else.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...