My H has been doing the same thing, ran up all the credit card bills including ones we paid off and this started right around when the A started and months before he moved out and we actually had double the bills. His only defense against paying alimony is that he has too many bills to pay.
Her strategy might be that she's not getting enough $$ to pay her bills. Although my ? is since my H put most everything on credit cards, what happened to his sizeable salary then? Should we feel sorry for the person that spent it on meals out and vacation trips with OW??? Or your W who spends the money on whatever instead of bills. Karen
