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Hey Mike, can't imagine what you learned from me....but thanks for the complimnet. I guess we all take a little something from each other's situations. I now peak in on you occasionally to see how "real" detaching is done.


well I learned that I should have left when you told me to leave.. \:\/

Oh I've forgiven Kim..I hold no ill will towards her..I only wish her the best and happiness galore...if that happens then I know my daughter will be taken care of..

I still consider to be friends with her as far as things with Caleigh go...we have very civil talks John..all about Caleigh..I have no desire to listen or validate Kim's personal stuff because in reality we are not married and it's no longer my problem or any of my business..If Kim interjects personal stuff in then I tell her it's none of my concern. If she brings drama from our M/R in then I let her know all that no longer matters to me as I have moved on..I refuse to rehash the crap...I dealt with all that in MC/IC and with all you lucky folks If she has demons..then go see a professional..

I can't spend days/months/years revisting all that simply because I did that after my first failed M..I spent 8 years trying to figure that one out and to be honest it was a cheeseless tunnel..and it almost cost me a R with my son..and to be honest if I attmepted to revisit all that with this failed M..then it might cost me an R with Caleigh and I won't let that happen..