I think Pup is right about the "okay with this". We had a conversation the other day when my intel turned up online searches through myspace where she was looking at other men's profiles in the local area. I called her on it and told her it wasn't ok with me (told her the sites popped up becasue she hadn't logged out correctly). She is out of the EA but still fantasizing about a "fresh start".
Right... So "friend" I have been discussing that is hip deep in her own EA is heavily into Zodiac-sign compatibility, blah, blah.. So intel tells me she is researching some sign that isn't mine for compatibility.
I feel like such an idiot. It is so easy to get suckered in this.
She does seem to be still in the fog. I guess she doesn't feel like she has any real issues to work on and the answer is to find somebody better?
Now I see why you detach. We are nuts when living in fantasy land!
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch