The great boxer Roberto Duran was all over the scales too. Between fights he would balloon up to over 200, but still be able to get back down to welterweight (147). Maybe Kim is just between fights right now.
The great boxer Roberto Duran was all over the scales too. Between fights he would balloon up to over 200, but still be able to get back down to welterweight (147). Maybe Kim is just between fights right now.
so Steve, you are saying that to see Ugly and no Beauty happens when we take off our rose coloured glasses? I am not sure I want to make a conserted effort to get to the "ugly" place. That does not mean that I want to get back together with the ex. Is there no middle ground possible?
I took that you were still attracted to your X. I quit finding my X attractive a long time ago. Started seeing her for what she really was instead of what I had in my "mind's eye".
Hey Mike, can't imagine what you learned from me....but thanks for the complimnet. I guess we all take a little something from each other's situations. I now peak in on you occasionally to see how "real" detaching is done.
No mas! Sorry to hijack one last time. I do find my ex wife physically attractive....still. Her actions in the past couple of years have been less than exemplary but i remember way back my godfather (on these boards / can't remember his name) suggested that I forgive. Asked me on a regular basis if I was in or out? Was what she did a deal breaker? So I guess I have forgiven and not forgotten but I still have my rose coloured glasses on for my daughter's sake.
I guess it takes "cojones ferreas" to continue to be friendly with a WAS.
The great boxer Roberto Duran was all over the scales too. Between fights he would balloon up to over 200, but still be able to get back down to welterweight (147). Maybe Kim is just between fights right now.
holy chittt..that may be the funniest thing ever on one of my threads..
something like that...it was more like...get your asss out of this house there at the end...especailly after she informed me that her dad and step mom would be coming to stay the weekend and that i needed to leave....I then informed her that I would be glad to leave if I could take all my stuff..or they had the option of coming on up and staying and they could watch me sit on my big couch..drink beer and scratch my nuts..in what was my house at the time..