so Steve, you are saying that to see Ugly and no Beauty happens when we take off our rose coloured glasses? I am not sure I want to make a conserted effort to get to the "ugly" place. That does not mean that I want to get back together with the ex. Is there no middle ground possible? She is not for me and I am moving on....that is where I prefer to be. I am not criticizing anybody who feels a certain way...I was just wondering out loud if two posters feel the same way does it have something to do with both guys being "involved" with some nice ladies.
