That is my concern, part of me says, hey if you say your done, take your stuff. I'm sure that isn't going to help. It will probably be better to just pack it away in the basement I guess.
No she doesn't know that I'm still married. Our conversation never really went in the relationship direction and I didn't want to say something out of the blue, like ok "time out" or "first things first". She did throw out the invite to pay her a visit but I don't plan on it. If I see her again and she asks, that will be the time I will say something.
