I'm sorry too, but I'm not surprised. He is a controlling person & that's not likely to change anytime soon.
I'm being the best me I can be, that that me doesn't want to be with him & his level of integrity, & the values that he thinks are perfectly acceptable.
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.