Going well or being strung along?

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Trust your instincts on the "friend". My W had an EA and I figured it out but bought the "just friends" bit and tried to be supportive and happy and it backfired. We were "working on things" but really as long as that other person is there nothing is going to change. I wish I had understood this before she said she didn't want to try anymore and wanted a divorce. I would have asked her to stop talking to the "friend". I thought it had to be physical to be an affair and as long as their was no Sex it didn't matter but I was totally wrong. It was just as bad for our marriage.