If its in the D papers call your L, DONT call him...its not worth it.

Listen too Snodderly, her advice is spot on.

remember they lie, they cheat, they spend.

If his lips are moving renee`, he is lying.

use this time to heal and nuture you and your S. Time to think

about you...You keep thinking this man than looks like your H

is what he used to be.....hes not, picture a little green man

in there....Sweetie its not your old H, it has become the total

opposite of what he used to be.

what he used to be. Leave him be..."im sorry you feel that

way" and walk away.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest