Good on you, Hope. I am glad you found a good atty who gets what you need. That is so key.
Snail pace, if you can't have him back right away (not that you want to anyway) at least you can annoy the heck out of him and let him experience some aggravation of his own doing. Let him feel the reality of his situation. You're right, you have nothing better to do anyway.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09