How right you are. She seems to have come totally unravelled. Not letting S10 take a styrofoam cup of Raman Noodles when he left to stay with me on his sick day? "If you want that, your father is going to have to provide that"
Driving by my apartment to see if D16 had let me use the Jeep that SmarmyLawyerbossscumbagparamour had bout for her after texting her asking where the Jeep was so she "could drive by it"
How's that for not being a "psycho bitc& from hel&"
And you are still dealing with some repressed anger, yourself, hon. Hope you are exercising the demons out. Yes, your stbx is from another planet, but you will feel much better when you expect the craziness from her and zen out about it. I kind of feel sorry for her - yes, its all her own doing, but what a life she has!
(btw, don't let that soften your resolve to continue on with a fair settlement--real life is about to bite her in the a$$. She really can live on her own salary, if she had to. You owe the kids, not her.)
You are avoiding telling us if you are looking for a bigger place...
Well, I took GymWoman out for Valentine's Day, and ran into STBXW's good friend and her husband. She had had more than a few cocktails and came over to our table to say hello. She immediately told GymWoman that she was STBX's good friend, but I was the good guy here and that although she was STBX's friend "what goes around, comes around". Smarmylawyerbossslimebagscummyparamour has asked this woman on a number of ocassions to go out to dinner with him and STBX. Her husband has refused every time, saying he couldn't possibly do that. Her husband sent over a couple of drinks, and all is well! STBX continues to be super-overcontrolling of the kids, making D16 cry at every turn. Nice job, Joan Crawford!
STBX continues to be super-overcontrolling of the kids, making D16 cry at every turn. Nice job, Joan Crawford!
I know from experience that the hardest thing is to watch your STBX effect the kids with her antics. Do what you want to me, I'm a big boy but don't mess with the kids! That was always my feeling and sometimes it is just so hard not to go in there like a bull in a china shop. A friend of mine told me that I need to recognize that STBX is responsible for building her own R's with the kids and if she wants to have a sh!tty R then that is her choice, I can't fix it. That's tough to swallow and it's even harder trying to figure out where the line is, the one where you say enough is enough and step in and when you stay the hell out. Isn't this fun, FLTC!
