Your wife who may or may not be in MLC sounds very unhappy. it seems she doesn't know WHAT she wants, so she wants to change EVERYTHING in hopes that something would work. She doesn't know yet that what is making her unhappy is within her, that changing the exterior would not fulfil her. That's why you have to be cheerful, take care of yourself and try to detach from her drama. Let her own her emotions, don't take her moods onto yourself. If she chooses to lose her temper, then let her own it. She needs to figure out why she is doing this and why she feels this way. If she has constructive criticism you can listen, if she is making threats, just don't react. She is unhappy and needs to get it off her chest.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'