Hi Silver, stopping by {{{hugs}}}}
Liked your list. Similar to mine. L said today to ask for MC is not worth it because both parties have to be agreeable to it. I was thinking more road block for D proceeding.

I am trying to get everything that I can because H has driven himself into a financial hole and my thought process is I need to protect the assets we have saved together so if in the future he returns we are not wiped out. I am not trying to be a gold digger (unlike the OW), but i am the only one thinking logically out of the 2 of us.

Take care of your heart. I know how stressful this is. breathe

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09