Hang in there girl. I am officially separated now too. I have appreciated your help on my thread immensley. We can be sep buddies now! I understand (not as long as you-3 days now!) how you feel.
Faith will help you since you mentioned it. Try to get out of God's way he knows what he is doing and he is always there for you. Tap into him. It will strengthen you. He wants to draw you back to him.
I will be there for you along with the rest of the folks. You are a great gal and should draw strength from that while your H figures things out.
Talk soon!
Jeff
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
Sounds like you are forcing yourself into new life and taking control of things. Thats good. Will he file? Who knows. But it was good to see you get on your knees and pray. I have been doing that alot. Although I haven't the past 2 days after finding out the graphics of what I found. I have been angry and hurt. But I need to get back to it.
How did you like the movie? I am trying to restrict myself to once a day on here now to. Thats a good plan.
Remember something and this is something I have to remind myself. Everyone has freewill. Man am I learning that the hard way. Even if God talks to him, he has to be willing to listen. On the other hand, God knows what it will take to turn him around and God may have things set in motion to do that in his time. So keep up the faith and praying and just see how it plays out. I'm obviously in your corner hoping for the best for yall.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
