H came home from work & asked when we could start "dating."
I told him perhaps we'd better work on being able to have a decent conversation first.
from there it got very honest. I again told him I needed time & space to work things through & see if I could get over all the damage to the M.
He again said I should leave our home. Which is fine. I'll start looking for rentals tomorrow.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
