Well, after almost 4 months after the bomb my wife and I are starting to bring our marriage back together. First post on this forum, I need some help. My wife was dating someone after she left and has kept me in the dark about the extent of the relationship. After she "left" him to work on us I asked what had happened and she got angry at me. Basically doesnt want to tell me anything, and to make things worse she still has contact with him, but says its strictly plutonic. I told her that if she wants to be together and build a stronger marriage she has to cut him out of her life completely. Its how I feel. It is hurtful to me that she was with him. I assume that the worst happened between them though she won't tell me. I feel that we must be open with each other if we are to have a successful M. I've been DBing well I think. I believe she wants us to be together, we've talked about having a renewal ceremony and such. Why does she still insist on keeping this guy in her life?
MMe-28 W-27 together 5yrs M-4 Kids-1 D-3 Bomb 20 Oct 08 Filed for D 29 Oct 08
