Thanks Tawnya,

L emailed me the Financial Declaration form - 5 pages long. But if it will show H just how much he will need to buy me out and how much he has put us in debt financing his "freedom" well, bring it on.

A friend told me she heard on a lawyer radio talk show that you should take a lump sum alimony instead of spreading it out over the years - due to the economy. If hub loses job or his salary changes those alimony payments could be put on hold. Something to think about.

I think we need a thread that addresses just these issues.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10