{{{{{{{{{Silver}}}}}}} I am sorry that you got whammed with this on what was suppose to be a relaxing day off..that totally stinks!!
You know, the financial part of our separation agreement honestly has been probably the toughest part I think because I Didn't expect that part to be such a problem..there are so many little nuances and things I didn't think about financially..sigh..it's very draining to me really almost more than the emotional!!
As far as the alimony, I know here, in NC, my lawyer is saying "ask for a lesser amount but for a longer amount of time", like even upwards of 10+ years..I know you are allowed at least 1/2 the time of the marriage, in your and my case it would be 10 years..
As far as your list, some of that I'm like "why the heck can't Silver have her hub come take care of all of this crap..like getting the house ready and stuff..heck yeah sister!" I would definitely bring some of it up..
{{{Silver}}}} YOU are good to make a list, start weeding thru and be prepared..but again, I hate you are having to deal with this..blah..reality sometimes stinks!
Tawnya
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