Hi Rob, just checking in to see how the weekend went. I was reading back over some of your post and this caught my eye again. I meant to comment on it before and never did. You said:
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I was that weak man who believed that bad things happen to bad people and the reason I was treated so poorly and had such bad luck with my life, my wife and everything in this world was because I was somehow a bad person and I didn't do enough
This is a common belief amoung people, but the truth is that bad things happen to good people. I can't explain that without getting off into religious doctrines, but the truth is that bad things happen to everyone. I do think that bad thing happen a lot to good people b/c it has to do with "good vs. evil".
Anyway, I am so glad that you have overcome a lot. When I read that list it is over-whelming to know that you were carrying that burden around with you and how you have overcome all of that. I would think that once your wife gets her eyes open and can see this new man in front of her that she will practically swoon at his feet. You deserve a woman that would feel that way toward you after all that hard work. At least you have the dignity that you want and I think you will always strive to keep it.
Hope you have a great week. Stay in touch.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
