She emailed me a few days after and said that she wanted to tell her sisters "on her own time and in her own way." I think that translates to "I never wanted to tell them, and if I did I certainly didn't want to tell them the whole truth like you did!"
It means that if she is pushed into admitting the A, then she wants to tell her sisters in a way that will make her seem like she was so unloved and unfulfilled and that you were such a monster that what she did won't look so bad after all. So, you are correct in that she does not want it told like you did b/c that was too much! (lol) It will be hard for her to play the victim now.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
