\My wife is going to leave me in 5 days--help!

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Phoenixdeux,
Very good points. I agree w/ you. I have been too easy about this. I guess I suffer from nice guy syndrome. She is paying for her stuff in her apartment. I actually feel weird because most of my paycheck is still in the bank and not gone a day after payday.
Another excellent point w/ the When I feel all set by myself, maybe then I'll be ready to date." She has not officially moved into her apartment but she will be by the end of the month. Once that happens, all bets are off as far as what I do and when I do it. She needs to decide what she wants to do. I asked her to wait 2-3 months to make sure this is what she really wants. If she comes to me and says it is then I will let her go. I don't want to start over but I don't want to be a doormat either. I think she does have a lot of issues to work out as well regarding finding herself.