letting go// any suggestions?

[peacetoday]

Thanks for your support
lwb_ yes it takes time, i know I am moving in that direction but I havent yet reached true letting go
steve- thansk for your sipport..i like what you said the interactions can vary at times there need to be more talk about kids or business and other times little or non..Im glad to have that option
Gabbysmom- I totally understand what you are saying about the OW.especially when your D is so young .It is sickening to me that she even gets to meet my kids..In my D agreement H is suppose to give me her SS# for backround check

I did speak to H today
Ive been struggling with little contact and ther were some items in the D agreement that we had to discuss
he said to me "Youve got to move on"
( not that he is doing so well..as he sounded depressed and said he wondered if he should give me full custody and the whole business and go away indefinitely??
so Im just waiting for the D agreement to be signeed
he agreed to go to IC and co parenting C with me 10 sessions, so I will get advice on moving the kids thru this as well as getting out any issues I have with Him..the A the lies the spending and secret life..
I am still moving forward though..Im hoping this is the last leg of this process
peace