so did she poison you ?? I was going to ask for the vodka sauce recipe. ;\) (tomato said I should show my bizarre sick sense of humor more often)

<<I hope we can still be friends after this is over.

when women say this, they don't mean "friends" friends.... they mean, I hope you won't get all ugly just because we're going our separate ways & I may be breaking your heart.

I'm afraid of what you will or can do to me because you're a man & I'm a woman & I know men are stronger & more powerful financially & physically.

It will get better. I don't know when or how. But it will.

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.