Have you read Men are from Mars Women are from Venus? It seems like you and your wife both should read it!
I know my ex and I miscommunicated so much. He would say, "I'm going out to __________"and then as an after thought he'd say "oh, do you want to come?" I told him I'd rather he say he wanted to go out WITH ME and we could decide together what to do. He said I was silly. It is very easy to miscommunicate!!!
