I just finished reading both your threads. So sorry you are going through this. My sitch is similar except we have no children.
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This house is one big unfinished project. All projects that he started and did not finish.
Just living here is a reminder of how he has hurt me and thrown me a way like a piece of trash.
My gosh I could have written this myself. Except my H is living in an apartment and visiting his OW 200 miles away EVERY weekend. I want so much to pick up the phone and say - It's my turn to move out, you need to come back, pay the bills, take care of the dogs, and fix the house so it can be sold. It would turn his world upside down!
Bravo for taking a stand for yourself and your children. Keep us posted and hang in there.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
