Wow girl, it sounds like it was a big day for you. Are you doing ok?
Sounds like you are at a point that I was at a few weeks ago. I told my H to leave the house, since I didn't have a place to go (all his family is here, mine is out of state) He wasn't happy either, but you are right...you cannot let them get too comfortable because that is when the cake-eating starts...and that's when I knew i had to make a change...a 180
I figured, "ok, he wants a D, then he is going to see what being D from me is going to be like"
Don't listen to the threats. My H did the same thing. "you aren't going to get any money" or "if you try to take my money then I am sticking all the debt on you", etc, etc. This passed because I just smiled and told him that he didn't have to tell me the laws and what my rights where..I have a L do to that for me! He just wants to scare you.
I know its hard right now, but you "did something different" and now you can work on yourself and GAL and sit back to see what happens. Ill be checking in on you!
