hey, I would not put any blame on the exH, as he is probably looking at it as just trying to help her. Now, of course he could be looking at trying to reconcile himself, and to that, well, wow, that would make things a little complicated. But in the thought that he is not, I do not think he is being a "bad guy" per se (sp?)
but, you have made that call, so you should probably stick to your boundary. I would just act like you feel very uncomfortable, and with the circumstance you will be there for her in every other way.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
